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I am a college instructor, and the institution at which I teach asks my students toward the end of the semester to evaluate my performance.
For the most part, the evaluations come back pretty positive, but I have to admit my heart starts beating a little quicker as I scan the open comments section where students can write anything they wish about any aspect of my teaching or the class. It’s a pretty nervous time for me, because I want so badly to make sure my students have a positive experience.
Every once in a while I get a couple of negative comments that get a bit personal and sting a little bit. It hurts. I only want to provide students with the best instruction I can. My intentions are good. I try to give everyone a chance, and I treat my students equally and fairly at all times (or so I hope).
No matter how hard I try, it seems that there are sometimes those who dwell on the negative among the positives, and who offer criticism with little praise. It’s not easy to read.
When we are the recipient of criticism or negativity, it’s easy to take things personally. It’s easy to think that we let people down and that we did something wrong. We’ve been conditioned to blame ourselves and feel ashamed.
However, the truth is that when we are the recipients of negative or critical comments, we are actually being asked to help! We are actually being placed in a position where we have the opportunity to give back to the person who is being critical or negative. The trick to catching on to this is to find pleasure in other people’s pain. This sounds like a bad thing, but it’s really not.
To receive criticism from someone else is actually an opportunity to give to that person, but we have to know how to listen through the criticism to find out how we can help them. We need to stop taking it personally and realize that criticism is not about us, because it’s really about the other person.
That’s why I am doing a webinar this week Wednesday at 2 PM Central on how to “bullet proof” yourself from criticism and negativity. I am going to be showing you exactly what you need to do to stop letting the actions and words of other people hurt you. You are going to have the opportunity to learn why people criticize and what you can do to eliminate the sting and hurt from negative and critical comments from other people for good!
You’ll gain a renewed sense of confidence in yourself and turn around even your most difficult relationships. You’ll even learn how to avoid criticizing others by avoiding key trigger words and phrases and learn how to establish a “next-step” action plan for improving your communications all around.
I usually charge $47 for my webinars, but I am offering a special discount for anyone who buys prior to the webinar on Wednesday where you only have to pay $9.40 for this valuable lesson! That’s a discount of 80% off of the regular price!
If you’re ready to stand up for yourself and take a stand against negativity and criticism for once and for all, this is your opportunity!
For more information on my webinar and to sign up, please click HERE! (Don’t forget to keep reading and catch my giveaway below!)
Can’t make the live webinar? No problem! When you sign up, I’ll send you a recording of the session so you can listen to it at your convenience!
If you’re ready to learn the simple strategies that can help you forever eliminate the pain and sting from the hurtful things people say so that you never have those feelings again, this is your time. It’s time to stand up for yourself. It’s time for you to take that step and sign up and change your life forever! You can transform your most difficult relationships into something harmonious and wonderful by changing the way you listen to what other people say.
I’ve helped transform people’s life-long struggles with negativity in my personal coaching sessions, and now I am bringing it to you at a huge discount! Don’t miss out on this awesome opportunity! Sign up now!
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Join me on Wednesday! Good luck!
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